Some people need to be the centre of attention. Others are happy to let things go by. Where do you fit in?

1.    You are at a restaurant and you ordered steak with sauce on the side.  The waiter brings you steak with sauce spread all over it. You:

a.    complain and ask to see the manager

b.    ask whether there was a mistake and then swap the plate your partner's

c.    just don't bother and eat it just the same.

 

2.    You are at a wedding and you notice that another guest is wearing a dress just like yours. You:

a.    go back home to change while steaming with rage towards the owner of the shop from where you bought the dress

b.    remain at the wedding but avoid the other guest

c.    joke about it and end up taking a selfie together.

 

3.    Your colleagues at work asked another friend to join you for your daily lunch time walk. You:

a.    say something unpleasant about her so that your friends change their minds

b.    interrupt her all the time so that you avoid her becoming centre of attraction

c.    gladly look forward to her presence - the more the merrier.                                                                        

4.    Your mother comments that you seem to be putting up weight.  You:

a.    panic and immediately decide to go on a strict diet

b.    admit you were eating a lot but confirm that it is only because of exam stress

c.    laugh about it and say you are happy with how you look.                                                                    

5.    Your ex has started dating someone else. You:

a.    bombard him with messages asking for a second chance

b.    look up this new partner and compare yourself to her

c.    are glad that he managed to rebuild a life in the same way you did.

 

6.    You are late for work due to a traffic jam. You phone your boss and:

a.    burst out crying while promising her that you will stay on later in the afternoon

b.    explain the situation to her and promise her that tomorrow you will leave home earlier

c.    tell her that you are late and so it's no use trying to reach the office at this late hour.

 

7.    You applied for a new job but you failed. You:

a.    feel humiliated and blame yourself for being incompetent

b.    phone the company and ask for an explanation

c.    start looking for a new post with another company.

 

ANSWERS

MOSTLY a's: You really deserve the title 'Drama Queen'. You always want to be the centre of attraction. Your see your life as a soap-opera with you always talking about yourself, your experience, your strengths and weaknesses in the most melodramatic way.  At times it seems that you do your best to make the lives of those around you miserable by gossiping, stirring things up and telling stories that don't interest people around you. Having an audience is the perfect set-up for you.

MOSTLY b's: You weight the pros and the cons of each situation. You know when you must keep a low profile and when you can ask for more attention or an explanation. Your attitude might still affect your relationships with friends and colleagues because you tend to switch mood and so they don't know what to expect. People might describe you as a wise person while others might see you as someone who wears a different hat for each different situation.

MOSTLY c's: Life is too short to worry about every single thing that might not go as you wished. Your mind is set on your daily routine and you focus on what affects you and your loved ones. It is useless to stress over every single thing while losing out on the most important things in life. Your motto is "do not worry about things that you cannot change" and this makes you a positive person who appreciates all that is around you without negatively affecting the lives of others.