The Malta Independent 23 July 2026, Thursday
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Choosing balance in 2026

Sunday, 14 December 2025, 08:26 Last update: about 8 months ago

Alexander Mangion

Perhaps it's still time to start thinking of New Year resolutions. It's never too early to reflect on the good habits that have allowed us to achieve the successes of the past twelve months, while prioritising a healthier way forward.

The truth is that we speak about mental health far more often today, yet we still underestimate how fragile it becomes when work, personal expectations, and constant digital noise induce us into a heightened constant sense of alert. The Christmas period can also bring its own special dose of stress, and that is why I opted to write this article now rather than wait for the traditional holiday fluff piece.

While we contend with concluding the year, balance the books, reflect on the achievements, plan ahead for the new year, there's a tonne of engagements, events and not an insignificant amount of socialising to be done - a cocktail that can get rather heady if taken lightly.

If 2025 has taught me anything, it is that balance does not come automatically. We must actively choose it and prioritise it. And that choice begins with boundaries. Many of us have normalised being permanently reachable, answering emails late at night, jumping between messages the moment they arrive, and treating rest as a luxury that we earn only once the work is done. It is simply unsustainable.

Luckily debate on the right to disconnect and related subject have started to reach the mainstream, however, no amount of legislation will force anyone into a healthier lifestyle. Setting a clear 'digital sunset', or a time when the laptop closes and notifications are silenced, is an efficient way of creating boundaries between work and the rest of one's life.  Protecting that space allows us to disconnect, to breathe, and to recharge without guilt.

Recovery time should not be treated as luxury. Rest is not laziness, and burnout is not a badge of honour. Incorporating micro-breaks, short walks, or even simple journaling sessions throughout the day can prevent fatigue from accumulating. Sleep, proper downtime, and the occasional offline weekend must not be seen as necessary evils, but rather crucial fuel on which we thrive. We must treat them as appointments with ourselves, as unnegotiable as appointments with our best clients, appointments that cannot be cancelled.

Moreover, it is just as important to monitor our own stress levels. We often push through exhaustion until the damage is so great that we end up in a dire situation. Small daily self-checks can help us detect early signs of burnout such as cynicism, irritability, or emotional detachment. At work, that may mean adjusting priorities, delegating where possible, and focusing on high-impact tasks rather than trying to do everything at once. Productivity should never come at the expense of wellbeing.

Human connection must remain the glue that keeps our lives together. High-pressure periods often drive us into isolation, even though we are fully aware that support is exactly what we need most. Reaching out to a friend, joining a hobby group, or simply having a conversation over coffee can reduce anxiety and remind us that we are not carrying the world alone. And if symptoms persist, seeking professional guidance through therapy or employee support programmes is not a sign of weakness, but one of strength.

Mens sana in corpore sano, the ancient Romans would quip. A healthy mind lives in a healthy body, if you allow me the paraphrasis. The Romans knew that physical health plays a crucial part in an all-round healthy lifestyle. Small, sustainable habits such as staying hydrated, eating better snacks, or fitting in 10 minutes of movement each day, help maintain resilience. Even structured techniques like the Pomodoro method, working in focused intervals followed by short breaks, can prevent mental depletion while keeping performance steady.

We must also acknowledge the growing role of social media in amplifying fatigue. The constant stream of curated perfection pushes us into endless comparison, making us feel inadequate even on our good days. The pressure to achieve more, have more, and be more creates a cycle of dissatisfaction that robs us of the joy found in simple things. Sometimes, the bravest act is to slow down, step away from the screen, and notice what is already good in our lives.

As we get ready for Christmas and look ahead to 2026, perhaps the goal should not be to do more, but to live better. To create space for rest, to seek meaning rather than constant achievement, and to value wellbeing as a foundation rather than an afterthought.

 


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