Every case of domestic violence should be dealt with individually according to the facts of the case. Nonetheless, all should be treated seriously, ensuring consistency in the proceedings whilst doing the utmost to protect the victims under all circumstances, particularly those in imminent risk, the Commission on Gender-Based Violence and Domestic Violence said.

Reacting to news of domestic violence cases which have received a multitude of media attention, the commission observed numerous comments on social media which tried to diminish these abusive episodes encountered by the victims as a 'family matter'.  The Commission reminds the public at large that domestic violence comes in various forms, including verbal and emotional violence.

While in certain cases, reporting on the identity of the perpetrator may be beneficial for potential victims to identify the perpetrator, there are cases where reporting on the identity of the perpetrator also exposes their victims. Therefore, the Commission calls on media outlets and the public to ensure ethical and responsible reporting and discourse. Gender-based violence and domestic violence is never trivial because the effects of this abuse are serious, complex and perpetuate power and control over the victims.

Domestic violence is a public issue which affects our society to the core in particular where there are children who are victims themselves, the commission said. The effects of domestic violence are multiple including an intergenerational element where violence keeps on being perpetuated from one generation to another. It is for this reason that this Commission expects consistency in decisions, discourse, etc of the various national institutions in relation to cases of domestic violence.

It is important to note that domestic violence can affect everyone, including people in high or public positions. In these situations, the victims might be reluctant to report or are further threatened due to the possibility of having the perpetrators or the victims' reputation tarnished. Moreover, victims may also suffer revictimization when they are perceived as washing the family's dirty linen in public.

Political parties, religious institutions and non-governmental organisations should further strengthen their commitment to support gender equality and the fight against gender-based and domestic violence through policies and protocols within their structures that clearly outline procedures in these circumstances. Their public discourse should clearly reiterate their commitment.

While taking this opportunity to show our respect and support to victims who find the courage to report their perpetrators, we remind those who remain silent that healing is a process that may take time, but reporting is the ultimate first step. We are certain that your actions will empower more victims of domestic violence to come forward to enable the eradication of this abuse.

Violence should never be a response and is definitely never a solution and those who have experienced violence or perpetuated violence should seek help to break free from these vicious and detrimental cycles, the commission said.

The commission emphasised that the fight against domestic violence needs the collective effort of all stakeholders. It is never truly over until the culture of violence is eradicated from our society.